Decide on an approach and jot down the important points. Buy two identical potty chairs and keep them in the same place in both homes, such as next to the adult toilet. Purchase duplicate sets of training pants or underwear to be kept at both homes. If you are going to use potty charts or potty books, have two of the same, and if you reward with prizes, stickers, or treats, do so at both places. Of course, there are times when two parents do not communicate or agree on issues such as this. In that case be certain that the experience is pleasant and consistent in your home, and be patient. Children are remarkably resilient, and your child will master toilet training even if both situations aren't perfectly aligned. | 
